Help !! my pierced ear hole is really big , can it be fixed ???

About 3 years ago my young son accidentally pulled my ear ring , as a result it tore the hole , it is now really big , i never put an ear ring in it for about a year hoping it would close slightly, but this never happened . It is not at all painfull , if i wear a stud ,i can almost pull it through the hole , and if i wear a drop ear ring its almost slit the whole way through !!!! does anyone know if this can be fixed ?? Can this be stiched up or clued back together ???? Because the hole is so big ,if i had my ear freshly pierced again it would be loads higher than the other side . Many thanks to anyone who can help !!!!!!!